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21 Secret Admirer Gifts For Him

Regardless of your age and your place of employment, you might have always secretly admired someone from a distance. Sometimes, you might have walked up to him to confess your admiration for him; however, most of the other times, you would have just been content observing him from a distance.

Whether you harbored some romantic and intimate feelings for him, whether you carried a harmless admiration in your heart, here are 21 gifts that you can gift for the man/boy you secretly admired! You never know – these gifts can turn your secret admiration into a full-blown romance, too!

1. Scented candle with some intimacy

This is a lavender-scented candle that will give the perfect opportunity for your man to relax after a hard day’s work. However, how do you tell him that you had always admired him secretly? How do you tell him that you are physically attracted to him?

Don’t worry; the intimate wordings on the candle will do the job for you. He is sure to have a smile on his face when he unwraps your gift and reads the message printed on the candle.

The best part of this gift is that it is functional as well. It can burn for 50 continuous hours, and it is made from 100% natural soy wax.

2. Positivity for the ones you love

Here is a perfect gift for the man you secretly admired! Even if you didn’t have any physical or intimate thoughts about him, you could still tell him how much he means to you by gifting him this jar of positive thoughts.

This jar contains 31 colorful chits of paper. Each chit contains a quote of inspiration, motivation and positivity. Your man can pick one chit daily to get his dose of inspiration, and he can never thank you enough for this thoughtful gift.

Packed in a high-quality and premium Italian glass jar, these quotes are great ways to express your admiration for a person.

3. Keychain with a straightforward message

If you are looking for a simple gift that will also help you openly declare your admiration to someone, this keychain is the right choice for you. It comes with the words, “You are my favorite asshole,” which has equal doses of fun, intimacy, romance and admiration.

Made from stainless steel, this keychain has a high-quality polish that lasts for many years. It comes cutely packed in a branded LParkin Jewelry gift box, which adds to its romantic appeal.

4. Let them know they are awesome

Who wouldn’t love a little push or motivation to keep going no matter what life throws at them? So, here is your chance to gift the person you secretly admire, some motivation by letting him know that he is awesome, and he has to keep going on.

This travel tumbler funnily delivers this message, which is sure to tickle his funny bones. Apart from being a cute gift, this one is highly functional as well. This is because this wine tumbler comes with double-walled insulation to keep beverages hot or cold for many hours.

5. A gift that will impress him

A man who knows to dress up in style knows that he also has to carry a stylish wallet to complete his looks. You have been admiring your man all along, and you cannot get over his smart dressing sense. So why not help him look more dashing than ever by adding a little touch of style to his personality?

Gift him this exquisitely designed premium leather wallet from Tommy Hilfiger on his special day to let him know how much you admire him. Made from 100% genuine leather, this wallet comes in a sleek style with a tonal edge stitching patterns.

6. A little too direct, indeed

The message on this greeting card says it all! If you have been head over in heels with the man you have been secretly admiring, it is time to come out in the open now.

Give him this greeting card and that would be the perfect moment when both of you would blush so much that your faces would turn beet-red.

7. A keychain with a cute message

Here is a keychain with a touching, cute and romantic message. If you want to let the man know you have been secretly drooling over that he is the one for you, this keychain is a great choice for you. Your man will love to use this keychain every day, as it will remind him of your love for him.

8. Conversation card games

Have you always been shy around him and apprehensive about starting conversations?  Here is a fun-filled card game set that you can gift him and play with him to give a new meaning to your relationship.

This game contains 100 question cards that you both can use to make the best of the time you spend with each other. As you make time for each other, and focus on one another’s interests, you can see the sparks growing in your relationship for sure.

9. A blatant confession of admiration

When you admire someone open-heartedly, we believe it shouldn’t be a secret anymore. It has to be expressed openly. This scented candle helps you in this mission.

It helps you tell him how the universe conspired for you to meet him of all the people in the world. He will definitely feel special when he reads the message on the jar of the candle.

10. Wallet Insert and Necklace set

This is a beautiful and romantic gift that you can give to the one you admire. The best part of this gift is that you get to keep a piece of it with yourself.

The wallet insert comes with a beautiful message for the person who is not only your best friend, but your secret crush as well.

11. Pop-Up Cards for the one that matters to you

Do you want to tell your special man how much he matters to you? Here is a set of 30 pop-up cards that allow you to do exactly that.

Neatly packed in a box, each of these cards comes up with a positive message. The space at the back of the card can be used to write your note for your crush.

12. A card with a funny uplifting message

On his birthday, do you want to surprise him with an intimate but funny and inspiring message?

Here is a birthday card with a message that is surely going to make him laugh away merrily. He cannot help hiding his smile at the funny comparison in the message on the card.

13. A keychain with a naughty theme

Here is a beautiful keychain with the perfect message to give to someone you are physically attracted to. This stainless steel, durable keychain is entirely hypoallergenic, and it doesn’t cause any skin problems.

However, more than its make and quality, the message engraved on it makes it a truly special gift to that person who can potentially become your boyfriend. He will find it tough to hide his blush from you when he reads the message on this keychain.

14. Long-distance admiration gift

This is not just an ordinary spoon, but a spoon filled with memories and nostalgia. What do you do when your secret crush has moved away for higher studies or better career prospects? Gift him this high-quality spoon that he can carry with him always to remember you.

The words on this spoon go this way – “Stir your tea and think of me.” What can be a more romantic gift than this to gift to your crush, to keep the spark in your relationship alive always?

15. A keychain again, but with a funny message

Are you wondering why we keep suggesting many keychains in this list of gifts for the person you admire secretly? Well, we can’t help these keychains come with such awesome messages!

This one is one of the funniest yet romantic messages you can ever find on a keychain, making it perfect for those you have a secret crush on.

Don’t worry; once he opens this gift and reads your message, you can be sure that your admiration won’t be a secret anymore. You never know; this message could turn the relationship into something mutually beautiful for the both of you.

16. Music box for your sunshine

Does your man love music? If yes, look no further than this perfect gift for him. This cute little music box is easy to carry and it is very easy to operate as well. All he has to do is crank the handle a bit to hear the melody, “You are my sunshine,” play again and again on loop.

He will love this simple but thoughtful gift, because it will make him feel special. He will feel loved that you think so highly of him. The best part of this gift is that it doesn’t need any batteries to operate.

17. Travel tumbler to impress him

The person you have been secretly admiring is definitely going to fall in love with this gift at first instant itself. It wouldn’t take him long to fall in love with you too! This travel tumbler comes with the beautiful words, “Sometimes, You Forget You Are Awesome, So This Is Your Reminder.”

This tumbler comes with double-wall vacuum insulation and is made from BPA-free material. Its anti-slip and anti-leakage technology help to keep beverages hot or cold for several hours, making it one of the most functional gifts on this list.

18. Beard Grooming Kit

Every man likes a bit of vanity, doesn’t he? So does your man have an impressive-looking beard that he is proud about? Here is a great gift to impress him, in that case.

Thanks to this beard grooming kit, you can let him know how much you admire his looks, and he will definitely like it.

This kit contains basic beard-grooming essentials like shampoo, conditioner, beard oil, balm, brush, comb, scissors, a storage bag and a detailed grooming manual.

19. Personalized leather bracelet

Most men love premium leather accessories, as it makes them look sophisticated, stylish and elegant. If your man loves lavish gifts, this leather bracelet is a great way to tell him how much you admire him.

The best part of this gift is writing your personal wordings on it before giving him this. You can choose up to 11 words to be engraved on the insides of this bracelet. Though this bracelet look simple, it is elegance personified.

With a classic-looking cuff, three adjustable sizes and three holes on the strap, this bracelet is great for small, medium and large sizes of wrists.

20. Natural oak wood beer mug

This unique beer mug, made from oak wood is one of the best gifts you can give to someone you secretly admire. Usually, beer mugs are made from glass, but this is different.

With a wooden exterior, and a stainless steel coating inside, this mug can keep a man’s beer cold for many hours.

He will think of you whenever he uses this mug, and he cannot help but stop the smile that spreads on his face when he thinks of your thoughtful choice.

21. Confess your admiration

Usually, nothing works better than the gifts that have an old-school charm attached to them when it comes to expressing your feelings. So, here is a simple notebook journal that comes with the exact words, “I have a crush on you.”

What could be more effective than telling him about your blatant admiration towards him? With an attractive cover of these words and an illustration of a balloon, this notebook journal is one of the best functional gifts you can give to someone you have been crushing on secretly.

As you can see, some of these gifts are quite romantic, while some are a bit naughty. How well do you know the person whom you have been secretly admiring for some time now? 

How well does he know you back? What is the current relationship you both share? 

We recommend you ask yourself these questions before choosing one of the 21 gifts so that there are no awkward moments or embarrassments that you both have to experience.

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